Grief Coffee Talks

Creating gentle, brave spaces for real conversations about death, loss, and grief

The Story Behind Our Gatherings

After years of hosting Death Cafes in Toronto, where we hosted hundreds of people in powerful conversations about mortality, we witnessed firsthand the profound need for spaces where people can speak openly about death, dying, and grief. These sacred conversations and the beloved, brave souls who gathered remain with me today.

And while Death Cafes offered beautiful opportunities for non-facilitated discussions, we envisioned something that would blend community dialogue with gentle guidance and educational elements.

What Makes Grief Coffee Talks Unique

Our monthly virtual gatherings build upon the foundational wisdom of the Death Cafe movement while offering a slightly different approach:

  • Professional facilitation to help guide and deepen conversations

  • Brief educational components to enhance grief literacy

  • Structured space that remains organic and responsive

  • Integration with our broader grief support community

  • Focus on both death awareness and unique grief experiences

The Format

Each 60-minute gathering includes:

  • Opening grounding practice

  • Brief educational offering

  • Facilitated group discussion

  • Shared resources and practical tools

  • Closing ritual

What to Bring

  • Your favourite warm beverage

  • An open heart

  • Any questions or experiences you'd like to share

  • Notebook for personal reflections (optional)

  • Tissues (conversations can touch tender places)

A Note About Death Cafes

We honour and appreciate the Death Cafe movement, which continues to offer vital spaces for mortality conversations worldwide. If you're interested in attending a Death Cafe, we encourage you to visit deathcafe.com to find gatherings in your area. These volunteer-led, non-facilitated discussions offer their own unique and valuable experience.

Our Commitment

At Grief Coffee Talks, we commit to:

  • Creating brave, confidential spaces

  • Honouring all grief experiences

  • Welcoming diverse perspectives

  • Holding space without trying to fix

  • Supporting authentic connection

  • Providing evidence-based resources

Join Us

Whether you're:

  • Grieving a recent or past loss

  • Curious about death and mortality

  • Supporting others through grief

  • Working to build grief literacy

  • Seeking community around these topics

There's space for you here.


Special Invitation to Our First Gathering

Date: Wednesday, December 11th
Time: 6pm CT / 7pm ET
Theme: Grief During the Holidays

Join us for this special first gathering where we'll explore the unique challenges and emotions that arise when navigating grief during the holiday season. The festive period can amplify our sense of loss and bring complex feelings to the surface. Together, we'll:

  • Share strategies for managing holiday expectations

  • Discuss ways to honour our grief while participating in celebrations

  • Explore how to communicate our needs to friends and family

  • Create space for both joy and sorrow

  • Learn practical tools for self-care during this sensitive time

This inaugural session is open to all members of our community. It's an opportunity to experience the gentle, supportive environment that defines our Grief Coffee Talks.

Registration

  • Open to all for this first session

  • Register via Zoom

  • Mark your calendar for December 11th (when you get the Zoom confirmation you can easily add to your calendar)

  • Zoom space opens 10 min before the hour so we can begin on the hour

  • Bring your favourite evening beverage

Registration is required for each subsequent monthly session. While our first gathering is open to all, subsequent sessions will be available to paid subscribers ($8/month or $80/year) or through our website under Events ($5/session).

Note: These gatherings are not therapy sessions but rather educational and community-building spaces. If you're seeking professional support, we're happy to provide referrals to qualified grief counsellors.

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